Seven Months

As hard as it is to believe, our sweet Esther is growing up right in front of our eyes.   Her gorgeous smile and bright eyes already communicate such love for those around her.

This has been a big month for Esther as she is now rolling all over the place and almost sitting on her own.  She also has now cut through her first two teeth.  She is still not sleeping well at night, but I am hoping that that will change soon!

She's our little doll.  And we ADORE her!!!

Snow!!!!!

I know.  I know.  Another snow post.  But this is our first snow of the year and we all LOVE snow!!!!!!!  When the girls woke up this morning and saw the snow, it was as if it was Christmas morning all over again.  I have to admit, I was right there with them!

 Ready to go!!!!!!!

 Baby's first snow!

Auntie Anna was here, and that always makes everything better!

 Daddy and his work crew with "Frosty".  (Where they get their creative name ideas I'll never know!)

With my beloved husband.  Makes my heart skip a beat!

Have a beautiful and blessed winter day, wherever you may be!

Heart For Home Thursday~ Be sure to clean the hoses!!!

I admit, this may seem a bit random.  But it struck a chord with me so maybe it will encourage one of you too!

I have a reoccurring problem around here.  Over and over I find myself coming to my husband and saying, "The vacuum just doesn't work as well as it used to.  I can't get the hose to have good suction."  And he always responds with, "Is it full?  Did you clean out the hose?".

I always feel like I have.  I've always looked down it a few times, poking my fingers down to see if I can reach any trapped junk.  But every. single. time.  He pulls it apart.  Actually cleans it and it works like a charm.

Lately my dear oldest daughter has been experimenting with some less than wonderful attitudes.  I don't like it.  But instead of dealing with the problem, I tend to just let it bother me.  I nag her about being joyful.  Being respectful.  Being thoughtful.  Being diligent.  Instead of really working on the issue, I try a quick fix just to get on with the day.

As I was cleaning out my vacuum hose, feeling so good about actually fixing the problem, it struck me that same thing was needed in my relationship with my daughter as well.  Not a quick fix.  A heart to heart.  An actually "cleaning out" of the garbage that was clogging up her attitude and our relationship.

Now, I'm not implying that working on a relationship is as simple as cleaning out a vacuum hose.  But it was a reminder to me, to not half-heartily try and train my child.  Or build our relationship.  Often it takes taking the the time.

There are so many areas I need to apply this principle to.  And hopefully the Lord will continue to challenge me in this area.  Take the time.  Do the work that is needed to make things run the way they are supposed to!

Mmmmmm

Don't be afraid to try something new!  This was my experiment for the night and Mmmmmmmmmm!  Home run!!!

I tend to be very narrow minded in my cooking ventures, but sometimes an experiment pays off!!!

There's a new kid on the block......

..... And we think she's pretty FANTASTIC!!!!

Heart For Home Thursday~ My Man

I wasn't exactly sure what I was going to write about this morning.  I had a few ideas swirling around.  But as I did my regular "morning reads" one thing kept pounding me from every side.  How am I doing in helping my husband be everything he can be?

And yes, this has everything to do with a heart for home.  Everything.  God made marriage the absolute center of the home.

Once again, the success or failure of our position as the wife begins in the heart.  But it CANNOT stay there!  I have never had trouble respecting my husband.  In fact I can say without flinching that I respect him more than any one I know.  It's what I love the most about him.  And we all know (and if you don't know, learn it!!!) that men need respect.  I thought I had that one in the bag!  It came as quite a surprise to me several years into our marriage that my husband didn't always feel respected!  OOFH!  That felt like a punch in the gut.  How could I feel such amazing respect for him and yet he didn't feel it, in fact sometimes he felt disrespected by me!

After I emerged from my self-pity party, I started to actually look at the problem.  I asked questions, respectfully and not defensively and little by little began to understand better what communicates respect to MY husband.  I still have a long ways to go!  But it felt good to know I was gaining a better understanding of my man and was learning how to better serve him.

So number one, respecting your man starts in the heart.  Focus on the good, have a thankful heart, forgive always, appreciate the amazing gifts the Lord has blessed him with.  Number two, communicate your respect TO HIM, not just with words but in ways that he knows you absolutely respect him.

Number three, and perhaps the most difficult one to do consistently, share your heart with those around you.  Stand up for your man.  And not only your man, but husbands in general.  That may sound goofy, but men are truly under attack.  This world NEEDS real women who are willing to stand up to the worldview which makes a mockery manhood and believe what God says.

I read an article this morning by Fawn from The Happy Wives Club.  In it she wrote,

"What if, in every corner of the world, there were women like me? Women who were proud of their marriage and didn't boast or brag about it to others but simply didn't hide it. In conversations when other women were male bashing, rather than shrinking back and remaining silent, spoke up about the beauty of men and the blessings of our differences.

What if one million women, around the world, decided they were going to change the conversation within their inner circles? They wouldn't disregard the challenges many of their girlfriends are having but would simply take the time to show the other side."

So that's my challenge to myself.  And to you.  Let's speak up more.  Let's refrain from jumping in or stirring up disrespectful attitudes towards our men.  Let's do all that we can to build them up (Do I really need to address the difference between "building up" and "puffing up"?  I will if I have to!).   Let's make sure our hearts, our actions and our words are honoring to the Lord and honoring to our husband's!

One More Reason You're Not Seeing Me Much........

I've been pretty busy playing.

With my new toy.


Yes, my husband blows my mind!!!!!!