I'm really not a fan. Not the kind that tells us what sort of ingredients make up the cookie I'm about to put into my mouth, but the kind that we put on each other and assume that they tell us the ingredients that make up the people. I've always had a bit of an aversion to being labeled. Remember my fear of being an herby "earthy" girl? It amazes me to watch Christians drawing sides over labels such as "Quiverfull vs. Birth Control", "Patriarchy vs. Independent Women", "Courtship vs. Dating" etc.. Do I have strong beliefs about such issues. You better believe it!!! Do I believe pasting a label on me is an accurate way of explaining to you what it is that I truly believe? Absolutely not.
I believe what I believe about having children , because of what I believe about God. I believe "the husband is the head of the wife" because that's what God says. I believe relationships are blessed when they are placed into God's hands because He is faithful, and I've experienced it first hand. I don't think any "group", or "way of thinking" can accurately define what I believe other than the Word of God.